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A fine line exists between fear and respect |
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Tuesday, 14 April 2009 20:20 |
The Old Educator
at the Lake
By Glenn Honeycutt
Glenn Honeycutt has been writing a weekly newspaper parenting tips column for 10 years since retiring from education.
Values, morals and character appear to be declining in our society. These guiding principles govern actions, determine how we interact with others and serve as a guide to self-judgment.
They are the foundation for who we are and what we pass onto our children. If it’s true these beliefs are diminishing, what is become of them?
Neglected children are becoming a national tragedy. It’s a mystery why some parents turn them loose for someone else to raise.
Irresponsible parents are failing to instill family values, morals and strong character in children. They grow up one day to become less than what they could be.
No one seems to be concerned enough to address the deterioration of these guiding principles. It appears we’re stuck on “freeze frame,” and headed toward “self-destruction.”
We stand back and watch the misguided do what they do. Misdirected parents are producing misdirected behavior in siblings. Going into denial and hoping someone will come along to address the matter, doesn’t solve anything.
Children who know right from wrong and demonstrate caring attitudes will raise their children in a similar fashion.
It’s unlikely basic values not taught in the home will be picked up on the street. Perhaps schools are the last hope? If this is the case, more options are needed by school officials to cope with difficult personalities.
The failure to correct unreasonable student behavior has resulted in the need for juvenile court intervention.
It’s unfortunate, but they are needed in a few instances to coerce parents to do what they should. Attempting to change behavior, some parents have resorted to drastic measures and end up in court.
The thought of being cited has caused them to be tentative and less assertive with discipline. It’s good the abusive have been confronted, but there is a downside.
Parents have become cautious under the watchful eye of, “Big Bother.” Their authority has been eroded, never to be regained.
Children who live by the “Golden Rule,” function better in life and become effective parents. There’s is a fine line between fear and respect.
Respect cannot be earned through fear but it’s possible to change behavior by using fear selectively. Kids showing little respect and regard for others fear nothing, because they have nothing to fear.
So, the question remains; “Is it possible to change behavior through the use of fear?” Additional options are needed to get the attention of the “fearless,” who won’t be held accountable.
Every parent has used fear to alter behavior at one time or another, as you will see next time. Read previous “Woodshed” articles at oldecucator.com |
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Summer kicks off with chamber steak fry |
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Tuesday, 14 April 2009 20:19 |
Final plans for the Indian Lake Chamber “Summer Kick Off Steak Fry,” to be held at the Huntsville Event Center, have been made.
The planning group met at the center recently to review details for the Steak Fry to be held on Thursday, May 14 at 6 p.m.
According to Jeff Holycross, Chairman of the Steak Fry, “the newly renovated Huntsville Event Center is a perfect place to host the event for the first time. The spacious accommodations have all the amenities we need, including parking. Sandy Musser has worked closely with us and wishes to showcase the recently opened Event Center. The public will have the opportunity to see first hand, what a nice place it is. It is really a great location for the Steak Fry,” Holycross said.
The meal will consist of a New York Strip Steak prepared by past chamber presidents, baked potato, salad, roll and dessert.
Drinks will be provided. A disc jockey will be on hand to provide music and other entertainment. A popular, local barbershop quartet will also perform as the highlight of the evening and other fun activities are planned. All past presidents and board Members in attendance will be introduced.
“We are very excited and pleased to host the Indian Lake Chamber Steak Fry. We’d like to help in any way we can to make the event a success. These kinds of events are our specialty, it’s what we do,” Sandy Musser said.
Tickets are $20 per person for the event. A sell-out is anticipated and tickets can be purchased from current board members, at the chamber office, The Landing,
McDonald’s Pottery and Gifts, Edward Jones, Ohio Ready Mix and Aries Pharmacy.
Ticket sales will end on Tuesday, May 12 at 5 p.m.
For additional formation, please contact Pam Miller at the Chamber Office at 843-5392. Any individual serving on the Chamber in the past who would like to help is asked to contact Miller. Proceeds from the evening will benefit Chamber activities and events.
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Summer kicks off with chamber steak fry |
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Written by Editorial
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Tuesday, 14 April 2009 20:19 |
Final plans for the Indian Lake Chamber “Summer Kick Off Steak Fry,” to be held at the Huntsville Event Center, have been made.
The planning group met at the center recently to review details for the Steak Fry to be held on Thursday, May 14 at 6 p.m.
According to Jeff Holycross, Chairman of the Steak Fry, “the newly renovated Huntsville Event Center is a perfect place to host the event for the first time. The spacious accommodations have all the amenities we need, including parking. Sandy Musser has worked closely with us and wishes to showcase the recently opened Event Center. The public will have the opportunity to see first hand, what a nice place it is. It is really a great location for the Steak Fry,” Holycross said.
The meal will consist of a New York Strip Steak prepared by past chamber presidents, baked potato, salad, roll and dessert.
Drinks will be provided. A disc jockey will be on hand to provide music and other entertainment. A popular, local barbershop quartet will also perform as the highlight of the evening and other fun activities are planned. All past presidents and board Members in attendance will be introduced.
“We are very excited and pleased to host the Indian Lake Chamber Steak Fry. We’d like to help in any way we can to make the event a success. These kinds of events are our specialty, it’s what we do,” Sandy Musser said.
Tickets are $20 per person for the event. A sell-out is anticipated and tickets can be purchased from current board members, at the chamber office, The Landing,
McDonald’s Pottery and Gifts, Edward Jones, Ohio Ready Mix and Aries Pharmacy.
Ticket sales will end on Tuesday, May 12 at 5 p.m.
For additional formation, please contact Pam Miller at the Chamber Office at 843-5392. Any individual serving on the Chamber in the past who would like to help is asked to contact Miller. Proceeds from the evening will benefit Chamber activities and events.
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Indian Lake Business Profile |
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Tuesday, 07 April 2009 21:34 |
By DAVE HENSON
Pet owners of the Indian Lake region are very fortunate. Home Away from Home Kennel and pet care facility is an oasis for your pet.
Owner Robin LeFever opened the facility in 1992 and since then they have expanded to their current 52 indoor/outdoor runs and 5 suites.
All runs are heated and air conditioned for your pets comfort. Speaking of comfort, how about a suite for your dog.
Suites include a private room with tv, bed, chair, blankets and toys. A private pool and exercise playground are also amenity options available for your pet. There are also accommodations for our feline friends in the kitty condo area.
The pet care facility doesn’t stop there. Home Away from Home offers training classes for your pet. Starting with puppy classes through advanced obedience, you can have the best behaved dog in the neighborhood.
Whether your on vacation or just a busy couple days, Home Away from Home is a great option for your pet.
Consider it a spa get-a-way for your best friend. On site grooming service at “The Dog House” is provided by Dawn.
You will want to call ahead to schedule kennel and grooming services. They also require your pet to be up to date on vaccinations.
Business managers Jo and Lorraine do a wonderful job in making your pets visit a pleasurable experience.
Amy and Heather are your pets, pet care technicians and are very observant in your pets needs. Home Away from Home is located on S.R. 117 just north of Huntsville.
Hours are Mon.-Fri. 8am. to 1pm. and 3pm, to 6pm. Sat. 8am. - noon. Sun. 6pm. to 8pm. My golden retriever “Bogey” recommends Home Away from Home as your pets vacation destination. |
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